The Penis, an Accessory for Two

  • Posted by Stephanie on March 15, 2012 at 5:15 pm

Sex toys for women, sold into a chic fashion boutique, Daniel Sibony bring to question the need for another.

Daniel Sibony, Ph.D. in mathematics and philosophy and psychoanalyst, has recently published the name of God (Knopf, 2002). Forthcoming: the Middle East. Psychoanalysis of a conflict (Le Seuil).

What makes “shock” or surprise, which tantalizes is that it is not in a sex shop, usually for men, but women in a shop (Woman, 4, rue de Grenelle, 75007 Paris) , and fashion and chic, and that these sex toys are sold by a very pretty woman, with modesty, restraint, simplicity. Sell ​​something to masturbate, with dresses and below, it’s funny. And there is no “I think that you will …”, that you will advance.

These objects that touch the woman, when they take over from humans, sex, reveals a hint of annoyance of having to go through the other: after all, it is bulky, man, we must find the right, put it in the right place in the fantasy, it can slip, fall or get lost … In fact, it is the sharing of sex that is complex to live. For in intercourse, the penis is stretched to the man and woman, both. Intercourse, the sharing of the penis attached as glowing, in-between where each comes with its share: the desire. Therefore, these penis-fetishes, which are the “sex” ready-to-wear … hand express the fantasy of being comfortable.

We hear the desire of women to satisfy “for oneself”. But we cannot satisfy “by itself” as the aspect of desire that concerns only himself, so the narcissistic aspect, but the desire and love to live in two. So if we take “his” share of sex and eaten in his corner, then what we have in hand is the accessory. Also remains the essential: the enjoyment of the woman with man, sharing with him. Always with this paradox: the penis is stretched, the living symbol of sharing. Nature could hang it on the woman, but she is already so many other things – the child, the breasts … So nature has hung over man, but it’s not him, c is both.

Thereby displaying sex toys, some say it appears, officially, no longer dependent of male desire. What you see here is rather a sign of greater “autonomy”, major feature of our societies: maximum independence – especially consumer – for everyone. But men and women already suffocating in their independence, and looking for some addiction, a little love, a little link that takes. And here they are again looking for another that we cannot live without.

Furthermore, when sex toys make man “useless” is that it already was, is that in reducing it to a queue, the pain was already great, even unconscious pain of missing else.

Simulate Is Lying!

  • Posted by Stephanie on March 11, 2012 at 5:05 pm

The idea received. Despite the abundance of information on sexuality, we are still victims of prejudice that may complicate our sex life. Each month, Catherine White, a sexologist …

The idea received. Despite the abundance of information on sexuality, we are still victims of prejudice that may complicate our sex life. Each month, Catherine White, sexologist and psychoanalyst, presents in its place one of these beliefs.

Simulate, pretend to feel pleasure, would be a lie? But why reduce the simulation to a guilty secret or an expression of manipulation? Making love is an appointment where you want the other whole, everything offered, all to itself. We would like the world disappeared, outdated fears, evidence found in the fusion of body and testified in the fun.

Need for reassurance

When women – naively – believe that erection and ejaculation of their partners are the result of their power of seduction, men also looking quite legitimately in female pleasure to measure their value. Plus, they are fed the idea that the enjoyment of women depends on them, the idea that women themselves endorse. But the man most expert, most loving, most caring in the world can do nothing if the woman is not ready, or those evenings, welcome to the pleasure and the internal revolution that implies.

Afraid to lay bare

Do not enjoy can indeed be an unconscious way for her to protect themselves from their emotions, this too expected melting of the fear it has lost control, the violence of orgasm … However, while that it’s all for this backup, experiencing the silence of her sex, she does not forget that the man was waiting for her and the challenge: to reassure and enjoy being loved in return. Thus, reinforcement of well-orchestrated moans, she offers what she saw as a pretty picture of herself, namely: the victory of his partner! Another woman will look through these rails during a sensual staging in which it occurs. If a form of self-excitation may ensue, often, the enjoyment comes not for lack of abandonment and letting go.

A question of sincerity

Lie? Should we tell the truth, the whole truth? Are we only capable men and women, to hear the absolute duty of the other – “No, I did not enjoy” – without feeling challenged? Are we ready to tell us without fear of losing the confidence of the other? No, of course, especially not in love this time where body and emotions are naked. Yet trying too hard to meet the expectations of the other, you risk getting lost along the way, away from ourselves and our possibilities to miss what makes the magic of the meeting of two bodies: give and take with confidence . In this illusion of omnipotence offered by the simulation, we forget the fragility of which springs the delicious enjoyment. Thus, if lie there, is it not done especially to oneself?

Sex Therapy: “I Put Into Words My Shame”

  • Posted by Stephanie on March 7, 2012 at 5:14 pm

Anne, 35, and Bruno, 38, lived together for six years. They are parents of two children aged 4 and 16 months. After the birth of the first, their sex have been increasingly rare, and nonexistent. In 1999, they decided to undergo sex therapy.

Anne, 35, responsible for reintegration

“I always had trouble letting go in the desire to listen and speak. But after the birth of my first child, it has worsened to the point that I did not want to have sex at all. We tried to talk but as there were no solutions, we’ve agreed to go see a sex therapist. For nearly a year, we had a session every fortnight. We started talking about our fears, what was not, in our sexuality but also in everyday situations. At first, it’s been difficult, then, as and when the sessions, I managed to speak with more confidence and freedom from Bruno. After work the words, we went to that body, with massages, simple touches or caresses more sensual. The most difficult step was to observe the sex of the other very anatomical. I had never authorized such a thing, nor had left sound me a man like that! It was as if I was “naked” in front of him for the first time.

This therapy has allowed me to say what I felt. It freed me: learning to say my feelings and my desires, I learned to identify my desire. If I did not want to, I dare say. But if I “want to want”, I know, and my husband also, how to do it. I know what preliminary caresses of what I need. In fact, the therapy did not increase my desire, she taught me how to access them. ”

Bruno, 38, teacher

“After the birth of our child, we have not had sex for six months. I very badly. I thought that if she did not want me, it was my fault that I did it wrong. I tried to adapt to what I believed to be his desires. But it did not work more. When she suggested I see a sex therapist, I have not hesitated because I really wanted to found a normal sexuality.

For me, it’s getting back in touch through the word which was capital. From session to session, I learned to listen, to hear his desires, his genes, his desires. Yes, I think the work was done more at the head of that body. What did we come to that situation? Why avoiding me she? Why I cannot tell him? How should I interpret his behavior? I found answers to these questions. It also helped me to put into words what I felt, my guilt, my shame … Every time we came out of a session, we had tons of things to say. In fact, work continued at home.

Today, all is not settled, and it’s not because we made a therapy that we will begin to make love every day and forever. However, it does prevent most, and we know that one can speak of our desires or our refusal without fearing the consequences. Quite the contrary. With this therapy I learned to talk in depth, not only of sexuality but of myself, my fears, my desires, my plans … Take time to show themselves freely in speech is a very effective way of excite desire. The intimacy found in the discussion face to face makes you want to get closer to each other. “

Amsterdam, the Venice of the North

  • Posted by Stephanie on March 4, 2012 at 4:11 pm

The main city of the Netherlands each year attracts millions of visitors. Between the Amstel and the North Sea, Amsterdan is really a city that lives on the water.

If the origins of Amsterdam back in the twelfth century, it was during the sixteenth century that the city take its true aspect with its semicircular canals that make Venice a true North.

With its subway lines, trams and its buses, Amsterdam has a very good transport infrastructure. But it is by browsing the city on foot or by bike you will enjoy it better.

If Amsterdam attracts many lovers Coffee Shop, this place where marijuana is freely available, or most libertine pleasures as in the famous Red Zone where prostitutes have become a tourist attraction in its own right, the city has architectural treasures Batavian that must not be missed.

Among the most visited sites in Amsterdam’s Oude Kerk, the old church (near the Red Light District) is a monument that deserves your attention. Built eb 1309 this Gothic church and revival has great organ and you can climb the bell tower for a magnificent view over the city.

The Anne Frank House is so to say a place of pilgrimage in Amsterdam. This is where lived the family of Anne Frank, a Jewish family fleeing Nazi Germany.

On Dam Square you will find the Royal Palace. Although not used as a royal residence of Queen Beatrix, this magnificent building in classical style was actually a Dutch town hall that Louis Bonaparte transformed into a palace in 1808.

Amsterdam is also known for its fabulous museums. City of art, the city has hosted many talented artists such as Rembrandt Famous.

Rembrandt Museum is located in the house where the painter lived between 1639 and 1658.

A much more modern building houses the Van Gogh Museum, another Dutch artist of talent. The Van Gogh Museum is located on the area called Museuplein, a real concentration of the Arts in Amsterdam.

In this same area is very famous Rijksmuseum, the National Museum of Art and History of the Netherlands. With its collections from the fifteenth to the twentieth century Dutch painting fans will be delighted. You will discover beautiful works of Rembrandt, Frans Hals, Jan Vermeer or Jan Van Huysum among other great artists of talent.

If the city of Amsterdam is truly a city of art is also for some a romantic city with its famous canals. Be enchanted by the beautiful houses along the canal. These houses were built high and narrow by the merchants of the city that used the canal to transport goods.

To really appreciate the Venice of the North, we suggest you take a pleasant and romantic boat trip on the canals of Amsterdam.

 

Living in Budapest

  • Posted by Stephanie on March 1, 2012 at 4:08 pm

Straddling the Danube, the capital of Hungary reveals the charm of its architecture and wide avenues amidst lush landscaping.

Called by some the “Pearl of the Danube” and other “the Paris of Eastern Europe”, Budapest will seduce you with its bridges over the river, palaces, religious buildings and cultural majestic.

Born from the meeting of the old city of Buda on the right bank of the Danube and Pest on the left bank of the river, Budapest is a city steeped in history since its founding by the Romans, the height of Magyar civilization, its occupation by the Turks and its reconquest by the Hapsburgs.

Buda, on the right bank of the Danube, is the medieval town dominated by the Buda Royal Castle built on a hill in the thirteenth century by King Bela IV and can be reached by a funicular. At the heart of its fortifications you will discover many museums, the beautiful Matthias Church, the magnificent mansions of the street Tancics Milhaly and Fishermen’s Bastion.

Next door at the top of Gellert Hill and the Citadel you’ll get a superb view over the Danube and Pest. At the foot of the hill do not miss visiting the Gellert thermal baths located in a beautiful palace. You will discover its central swimming pool, saunas, steam rooms in sumptuous surroundings.

In the oldest part of the city, Obuda, visit the Zichy Palace in baroque style, the Vasarely Museum and Place Fö ter.

On the left bank of the Danube, Pest is larger than Buda. What we notice first is the beautiful Parliament on the banks of the River. Of neo-classical style is very similar to that of London.

Heroes’ Square (Hosok Tere) is one of the venues you well known to tourists. With his column of 36 meters high it is easy to find and is right next to the Museum of Fine Arts.

Since Heroes’ Square you can stroll in Andrassy Avenue where you will see beautiful homes and the Budapest Opera.

You can also take a walk along the Danube to see the bridges that cross it and join Buda and Pest.

Living in London

  • Posted by Stephanie on February 27, 2012 at 3:47 pm

Whether to spend a day or a week, London is a city that fascinates visitors with its historical monuments, famous shops and lively streets.

Some will love everything that is its charm “so British” as the changing of the guard at Buckingham Palace, The double-decker buses and pubs where the beer is flowing brown.

Others prefer to immerse themselves in the history of England and discover the many monuments, palaces and famous museums.

London is certainly one of the most beautiful cities in Europe, so close to Paris with the Eurostar or the many airlines that serve as British Airways , BMI , Easyjet or Ryanair.

It was in 43 AD as Londinium was founded by the Romans who had conquered Britain. The Romans then built a wooden bridge to cross the Thames. But the city was destroyed by the Celts led by Queen Boudicca in 60.

Quickly rebuilt Londinium became the capital of Britannia until the departure of the Romans in 410.

The city falls into the hands of the Saxons and Vikings before developing the reign of the Tudor and Stuart that will give us the beautiful buildings that we see today.

Each year more than 27 million tourists, including 12 million foreigners who come to explore the capital of the United Kingdom.

It would take too long to describe here all the attractions that have the city of London. We will detail each of these tourist spots in other articles on London.

Know that the major sights are within London’s West End, in Soho, Covent Garden, Mayfair, Piccadilly Circus and around the place in Leicester Square.

The most famous landmarks of London are the British Museum, one of the largest and one of the oldest museums in the world with a collection of over 6 million objects, the museum Madame Tussauds Wax Museum, where as Grevin you will discover the personalities of the country, the Palace of Westminster where sit the House of Commons and the House of Lords in the United Kingdom, Buckingham Palace is the official residence of the Queen of England.

Impossible either to ignore the visit of the National Gallery, this museum located north of Trafalgar Square and has a magnificent collection of paintings from all major UK and European painters.

Symbol of the city of London, Big Ben overlooking the Thames and the English capital from its height of 96 meters. This is the Clock Tower of the Palace of Westminster.

St Paul’s Cathedral is also one of the most prominent monuments of London. With its huge nave of 150 meters and its impressive dome of the cathedral and baroque classical houses the tombs of Admiral Nelson and the Duke of Wellington.

This is not a monument but it is undoubtedly one of the attractions of London’s most famous and which will serve you well. I mean the London Underground.

Built in 1863, the London Tube or Underground is the oldest subway in the world. View the traffic jams in the English capital, London Underground gives you access to all the sights of the city.

The nostalgic prefer to travel in the double decker bus, the red double-decker bus, or in the famous black cabs.

Theaters, musicals, art galleries, bars, restaurants, shopping… you’ll have plenty of options for eating out in London.

Most theaters are in the West End.

Piccadilly Circus, London’s Chinatown, Covent Garden, Shoreditch, Hoxton, Islington, are all areas where you will certainly find the bar, restaurant or nightclub that suits you best.

Oxford Street, the longest shopping street in the world, you’ll be spoiled for choice when making purchases. Nearby you will visit the famous Harrods in Knightsbridge, where neighborhoods are found the greatest British fashion designers like Vivienne Westwood, John Galliano, Stella McCartney or Jimmy Choo.

And for fans of the sport a visit to Wembley Stadium is required, the arena where 90,000 spectators gather when the England team plays football. Rugby fans will visit them at Twickenham, west London.

Friendship Is an Ally of the Couple?

  • Posted by Stephanie on February 25, 2012 at 11:57 am

Trust, complicity… couples that last are often the best of friends. Can their relationship be affected? Or conversely be strengthened…

Trust, complicity… couples that last are often the best of friends. Can their relationship be affected? Or conversely be strengthened? Our specialists answer.

“The best friend is likely to have the best wife, because a good marriage is based on talent for friendship,” wrote Nietzsche. Does this mean that the condition has become friends (secret?) Of the couples that last? The sexologist Ghislaine Paris, which has seen many couples in the long term, assured: “Any romance weaves an emotional bond that expands with time. We trust the other, we drop our guard, we feel he will be there for us in times of hardship. Complicity, trust settle gradually, as in the friendly relationship. Besides, if he was only a question of physical love, we content ourselves with fleeting

The question a lot of fun psychoanalyst Cadalen Sophie. “The presence of friendship does not necessarily lead to the loss of love, she notes. We are not in a system of communicating vessels, where one would empty and be replaced by another. The couple is a place where we wear different hats: we are lovers, relatives, associates, friends at different times, nothing is excluded. “And certainly not the sexual aspect.

“The relationship is sexual, even if only because we share an intimacy that we have not with our friends, says psychiatrist and psychoanalyst Catherine Bensaid. When we are with the person we love, there is an extra dimension, intensity, vibrato, which is not present in friendship. ”

Lots of sex, not friendship

So where does our fear of slipping gradually into a purely friendly feeling over time? From a misunderstanding, which refers to the symbiotic phase of passion. Early in the relationship, size does not exist in the friendly couple, because most of the time, we know little. “In passion there is little real respect for what the other lives, and even what it is, reminds Catherine Bensaid. We want to possess it, we see it as we would like it, not as it is. ”

But no matter: we keep longing for this phase when sexual desire was in full swing, without any effort or desire.

Cadalen Sophie: “We confuse love with the couple in the thrill of discovery. While the heart beats less over time, but not necessarily the feeling of love. The frenzy of early is not destined to last, otherwise we would be totally exhausted! The relationship becomes, calms the anxiety of losing the other decreases, which does not mean the disappearance of desire. ”

And if we were wrong? If instead, the ingredients of friendship present in our marriage were allies, not enemies of sexuality? This is certainly the view of Paris Ghislaine: “There’s always a dose of violence in the sexual act. It is important to feel confident, do not be afraid that the other abused, take advantage of us. This is especially true for women who need security to indulge in pleasure. ”

Moreover, these are the moments that bring us together sharing. We never make love as well after spending a day playing sports together, having vibrated at a concert over time, our nights are beautiful when our days are…

Bensaid Catherine goes further. “We imagine that it is friendship that threatens the sexual dimension of the relationship, whereas when a couple goes wrong, all the qualities of that feeling disappear, evidence that it is in no way responsible, she exposes. In addition, there may be a lot of sexuality in a relationship. But in a strict use of the body of another for his own pleasure, can we talk about love? ”

Regardless of sex, lots of friendship

If we are so concerned about the idea that sexuality is dissolved in friendship, is not it because it took too much? The psychoanalyst and Catherine White sex therapist examines the role that our age gives him.

“Some couples come to see a decrease in desire, but I feel that the sexual dimension is not so important to them, she develops. People should be asked about the place he wants to give away the dictates of the times. The goal is not to make love every day, but being at peace with her own sexuality, to continue living in harmony. When will we stop judging the quality of a couple of his only sexual desire? ”

Some put forward other values, and even if they do not make love very often, may not feel the lack, no frustration. “Is it better a lot of complicity and sharing, or a lot of sex without any of these dimensions? This is discussed, because we spend still more time standing than lying down! “Quips Catherine Bensaid.

Let us add that married life does not follow a linear curve which inevitably would we passed the period of the great love Arte programs and reading War and Peace.

The relationship fluctuates, has periods more inflamed than others, the important thing is just be careful not to allow sexuality to sleep: “We are always torn between the desire for comfort and security that gives us the friendship and eros, which is on the side of mobility, surprise, from the hustle and we are all trying to find a balance between these two extremes, “adds Sophie Cadalen.

First of complicity

Some couples find it hard to find this delicate balance. “I see partners who are the caregivers for each other, warns Ghislaine Paris. They always show understanding, an attitude of parental care, develop a fraternal feeling very bad for sexuality, because the plane then the incest taboo. “Most often, these are couples afraid of their sexuality and who end up on this common fear.

“True, it involves archaic emotions, exposes us, makes us vulnerable, bringing forth the deepest parts of ourselves, explains sexologist. The euphoria of the first month, some away from it, because it awakens the unconscious fears, that passion was dormant. Do not make love allows to protect themselves from the fear of not being a real man, a real woman, not to feel desirable enough or height, or lose all self control. ”

The friendship is it the cause? It is rather a convenient excuse, but that will be mostly short-term…

“Ultimately, these couples fleeing sexuality take the risk to avoid physically, no longer dare to bare look, startled when one touches the other’s arms. The sexual dimension mentioned above gradually disappears, and the common life turns to cohabitation, without fantasy or joy of living. Quite the opposite of a couple where friendship takes his ease, causes laughter and complicity, well beyond the bedroom. Love succeeded is to have the pleasure to join his companion, his mate with the same pleasure and gaiety that even his best friend, “says Catherine Bensaid.

Because in addition, we can make love with him…

Stay in Madrid

  • Posted by Stephanie on February 24, 2012 at 4:02 pm

In the heart of Spain , near the coast and beaches of the Costa Brava or the Costa del Sol, Madrid still attracts many tourists with its cultural and historical heritage of the highest order.

If Madrid was the capital of Spain until 1561 instead of the city of Toledo, the kings who lived there took care to make one of the most beautiful cities in Europe.

The ancient citadel founded under the name of Magerit by Arabs in the late ninth century has indeed become the will of Philip II of an important cultural center.

The most visited tourist places for tourists in Madrid are the Royal Palace, Plaza Mayor, Puerta del Sol, del Buen Retiro Park and the Prado Museum.

The Royal Palace is the official residence of Juan Carlos, King of Spain. Located in the Plaza East it is called also “Palace of the Orient”.

Built in 1738 the Royal Palace was built on the site of the Royal Alcazar of the Hapsburgs, burned in 1734. Visiting the Royal Palace you will discover beautiful works by Goya, Velazquez, El Greco, Rubens, etc…. in the richly decorated rooms.

Opposite the Royal Palace you can not miss the Almudena Cathedral, 73 meters high and consecrated by Pope John Paul II in 1993.

The Plaza Mayor is as its name suggests the main square of old Madrid. Built in 1619 on an old market, the Plaza Mayor is one of the nicest places of Madrid with its café terraces surrounded by old houses.

Another symbolic place in Madrid, the famous Puerta del Sol, a circular square that represents the zero-point distances to other cities in Spain since Madrid. It is in the streets that start from the Puerta del Sol you will find many shops where you do your souvenir shopping. In one of them you will discover the iconic statue of Madrid: The bear and the strawberry tree.

The Plaza de Cibeles with its famous fountain of Cybele is also a symbol of the city. Around the square you will find admirable buildings like the Casa de América, the Bank of Spain or the Palace of Communications.

In the heart of the city, when the summer heat becomes stifling, you will appreciate the freshness of the Parque del Buen Retiro. This is the place to stroll in Madrid many who come to relax around the Palacio del Buen Retiro or go around the paddle on the pond in the gardens.

In another green area of ​​Madrid you will discover one of the finest museums in the world, the Prado Museum. It houses the works of the greatest Spanish painters like Velazquez and Goya, but also Italian (Botticelli, Caravaggio, Titian…) and Flemish as illustrated Rembrandt.

In the Queen Sofia Museum which exhibits works of modern and contemporary art, you can admire the famous Guernica by Picasso as well as works by Salvador Dali, Joan Miro, Antoni Tapies and Max Ernst.

If the heart of Old Madrid is the Plaza Mayor, Madrid’s commercial center at the Puerta del Sol, the center of modern Madrid is located in Plaza España.

This place, where the statues of Don Quixote and Sancho Panza at the foot of Miguel de Cervantes parent, is one of the busiest places in the capital.

This is where leads the Gran Via, one of the main streets of Madrid with its many bars, restaurants, cinemas, theaters and clubs night that stay open until dawn. By day, the Via Grande is mostly frequented by customers of banks and department stores.

Chueca is the another very lively area of ​​Madrid. You will also find many discos, bars and restaurants. It is also the rallying point of the gay community and the neighborhood of fashion boutiques.

My Spouse Is My Rival

  • Posted by Stephanie on February 20, 2012 at 11:48 am

It’s been four years since I am with my spouse. We moved after one year. The first year, everything went well….

Question:

It’s been four years since I am with my spouse. We moved after one year. The first year, everything went well. But the past two years, we have arguments that are increasingly serious. I’m jealous of him every time I say something critical or he managed to remove everything I say. He always won. It is very good speaker, studied law, which allows him to advance arguments based on facts unlike me who is in the feelings and emotions. I admire him very much but the admiration turned into jealousy. I finally see him as a rival. Now my attitude is destroying us, this jealousy is really our relationship at risk. How can I do? Tasuki1

The response of Alain Héril

To read you, I wonder about the real origin of turbulence in your relationship. There is, for me, obviously, a “low position” in the way you live events. You seem to declare that you are less than your pet! You admire and you’re like a spectator who look with envy someone else that you embody what you want to be. I think a lot of your confusion comes from. This admiration turned into jealousy.

For indeed, what are you jealous? Of what he has and you do not! You say you’re essentially in the feelings and emotions. This can betray you and prevent you say and it would, undoubtedly, good that you are more objective and factual. Besides, your jealousy is related to emotional overflow.

So what to do? Gain confidence in you, do not expect your relationship it solves a problem that concerns only you and your personal history, and, above all, stop putting yourself in the place of the guilty than to sit where you can say your opinions and viewpoints without telling you in advance that, whatever you do, you systematically wrong!

To Be a Beautiful Bride

  • Posted by Stephanie on February 19, 2012 at 11:19 am

Makeover for bride

Enhancement of its assets is not always easy. It is sometimes useful to use a coach to find the image path of confidence. How makeup of almond-shaped eyes, how to shade a nose to make it smaller, what are the colors that delight the best one khaki-colored iris? So many questions that one should ask themselves the most on her wedding day.

The bride will always be the prettiest dress of the meeting and make-up becomes a breeze when it will in all keys.

We suggest you give some tips to be the prettiest … through and through ! If your nails are long, take their cut quite natural that looks like a short rounded square. Then you can opt for a clear varnish, transparent, or a french manicure! If you tend to bite them, know they are a reflection of an anxious personality … A few days before your wedding is not the cases tell us? The trend is short-squared, so a few days will suffice for you to have good length and be the most beautiful bride for your husband!

Lingerie for your wedding

The underside of the marriage are as important as the wedding dress for a woman. Far from simple, looking underwear wedding must take into account the low cut of the dress (on the chest and back), if it is skin-tight or not, the color of it, until ‘to his material. Do not assume that because lingerie is below the dress he must neglect far from it! The choice of lingerie is as much a part of preparation for marriage as well as choosing your wedding dress.

Another choice you have to do: to change for the wedding night, but put that? That choose to crack the happy husband? Take an outfit you’ve always dreamed? The lingerie will choose according to your tastes, your outfit and your wedding night. However, the lingerie will be functional for holding the wedding dress and beautiful for the wedding night. In order to combine the two you should have two outfits, one for day and one for the night.

Lingerie for the wedding day:

Not easy to choose a bridal lingerie. It must of course be hidden under the dress, so we can be comfortable at home all day, and sexy galbante to stun our little husband during the wedding night. That’s a lot of stress at a time! lingerie for wedding night: For your wedding night, you cannot make an effort … You must buy lingerie for the occasion. Lace, silk, satin, whatever your tastes, you can choose from white! and it is not easy to do … Garter, covered by a nightie, full set, worn with stockings, garter corset notched … And mandatory!

The manicure

The wedding day your hands and nails will be admired by all guests when you wear your wedding ring so he must take care. Make an appointment with an esthetician to be pampered and to make a beautiful manicure.

Usually the bride is:

Ask if his fake nails are too short or damaged

Make a French manicure. It is better to be put a clear varnish to sublimate their hands and nails without attracting too much attention to it.

The week before the wedding put on some soothing cream to soft hands and smooth.

The makeup

To define the style of your makeup will be the wedding day must be at least a trial about a month before the date. For appointments bring a photo of your dress or even a sample of the color of the dress (if multiple colors is easier) to coordinate all. Be guided by professional makeup artist because she knows her work and can transform you in daring colors as yourself would not have thought. However feel free to give your impressions and fears As the changing makeup because it is easier to reduce a color when she was asked instead that once everything is finished .

The body

The body contains all the stresses and anxieties related to the approach of marriage so to relax before the big day you can get a massage or a steam bath with the girls.

To get a satin skin we recommend you go to remove hair a few days before the wedding (especially in summer) because as you will no longer marks the waxing of the photos. If you missed waxing can be burned and the more heat it leaves marks. In summer you will no doubt be tempted by UV tanning sessions or wild on the beach to get a golden brown skin on pictures. Actually it will be very nice if not having the peeling skin, not having sunburn especially careful while tanning not have the marks of the swimsuit visible in the neckline of the dress! There is nothing worse in the photos.

Be nice for the big day

Many women want to lose weight for the big day For this, several methods: – Exercise while watching his diet, and to do it well in advance – Make a diet based on fresh produce low calorie, you will begin a few weeks earlier – Make a fast and effective regime in the short term with proteins, starting a few days before the wedding.

The protein diet has emerged as the most effective solution to lose fat tissue without feeling hungry or loss of muscle over a short period. This type of plan is divided into four phrases: ATTACK + + THINNING TRANSITION + STABILIZATION. The attack phase includes five protein products, less than 90 calories per day with vegetables and a dairy. Phase 4 includes thinning protein products (morning snack, lunch, snack) with a light dinner and fruit per day

During the transition phase, the breakfast is composed of conventional foods, and dinner with reintroduction of carbohydrates and the stabilization phase is a balanced diet which can be extended forever. If excessive, follow the one-day program to attack the next day and the scale will not budge! Whatever brand of protein products chosen, be sure to always have a quantity of 60 grams of protein per bag minimum.

Headdress of the bride

Before choosing your bridal hairstyle make an appointment with your hairdresser and make-it:

A photo of your wedding dress to show the style and color

A photo of your accessories

Photos of the models you would please

The theme of your wedding

The style of the wedding

Once all this in hand you can decide your entire hair and then test. The hairstyle can be:

A chignon (up or down depending on whether there is a veil or not),

The hair down (short, medium length or long),

And if your hair is too short and you do not have time or patience to let them grow before marriage you may be asked some extensions.

Once testing is complete (whether you like it or not really) do not hesitate to take a picture in order to have the advice of your friends or your family. If the first try does not suit you please make other or go to another barber.

Hairdressing as the holding is very important and you should feel good and you saw you pictured.